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Advice Goddess
Thursday, Jan. 30, 2014 12:00 am
 I know you’ve discussed how the guy should pay on the first few dates. I’ve been dating a pretty fabulous woman for a month, and I’m dipping into my savings to take her out to the sort of
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Jan. 23, 2014 12:00 am
 I am a bridesmaid in a wedding in four months and haven’t been able to think of a guy to be my date. I recently met a guy at a party. He is the friend of a friend and is cute and funny and see
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Jan. 9, 2014 12:00 am
I’ve always loved surprising my wife with expensive jewelry and lavish vacations. However, I lost my job, and my new job pays far less. There’s barely money for necessities, let alone luxuries. My
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Jan. 2, 2014 12:00 am
I’m 22 and deeply in love with the wrong person – my uncle-in-law (my mom’s sister’s husband). We started confiding in each other, one thing led to another, and we’ve been sleeping together
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Dec. 26, 2013 12:00 am
 For two months, I’ve been dating an awesome guy. He does sweet things like leaving cute notes on my windshield, but I worry about how he looks up to his older brother, who isn’t the greatest
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Dec. 19, 2013 12:00 am
 A woman wrote you about flirting relentlessly with a male classmate who seemed interested in her but may have been too timid to ask her out. You asked her, “If a man can’t endure a possible
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Dec. 12, 2013 12:00 am
My boyfriend of two years has always disparaged gentlemen’s clubs. I truly believed him until he visited his family and I searched Google Maps on his computer for something in his hometown. The text
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Dec. 5, 2013 12:00 am
 Why do “helpless” women have men constantly doting on them, while women like me are deemed “too strong”? I was raised by a 1970s feminist and single mother. (“A woman needs a man like
Advice Goddess
Wednesday, Nov. 27, 2013 12:00 am
Around Valentine’s Day, my beloved boyfriend of a year kept hinting about a big surprise. He’d been talking about moving in with me, and I was expecting a proposal and a ring. I got a fondue pot.
Advice Goddess
Thursday, Nov. 21, 2013 12:00 am
Ten months ago, while studying abroad, I had one wonderful night with a girl. We kissed and danced the night away. She lives in Brazil, but we’ve communicated regularly via Skype and email. I’ve n

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